Tuesday, 3 June 2008

Welcome Back

It has been 2 months from the last post I made so here is a quick catch up on what I've been up to. Some names may not be mentioned from now on or maybe changed in someway to not associate that person to who they are, plus it saves me the hassle of people complaining and asking me to change or remove stuff because from now on there will be no more of me removing stuff I've posted on here. Anyhow here goes the catch up.

As you'll remember before things were still going off, tension and everything with certain people etc etc. I would have liked to have said this subject is closed and it is from my side anyway and we don't really speak any more and no friendship has not and nor will come from everything that happened and to be honest I don't actually like the person and the stuff I hear been said behind my back even to the last few days only further adds to that feeling but it is no great loss to me, it's nice to know he is thinking of me still, however be it known if he continues to gossip about me at work he really will see the downside to it when I go down the disciplinary action route, not something I want to do and I've made that point very clear when I had to make a little report about it all. He should count himself lucky I've not taken it further already. I'm at work to work and be professional and not gossip about people, work is work, outside is outside. It seems to me he fails to realise a lot of people like me at work and have respect for me to actually tell me stuff that they are hearing. What he does out of work is up to him, he can slag me off to high ground if it really makes him feel better about himself but there is a limit to what I will take and this time he crossed it.

A while back I were thinking of moving, this plan won't be going ahead and I fully intend on staying here till at least after Christmas now especially as I've holidays and what not going off.


Single Life means I've been single 3 months now, usually something I'm unhappy with but the past 3 months have been fantastic. It has given me a chance to find myself again, and rebuild my friendships again and return my life back to how it was and I've had some very good times with plenty more to come, which I'm looking very forward to. Oh and I did have a kiss with a certain someone but can't decide if it was a good thing or a bad thing. It should be good thinking about it but I can see why on the other hand it could be a bad thing. Oooops


I've had people interested in me, I've been on dates but the people I've met I've just knocked back mainly because there not what I'm looking for. The next boyfriend I have is going to be something I'm quite selective about and not be jumping straight into but at the moment I'm happy to be out with friends, dancing, drinking and forgetting the nights and then doing my usual stuff in life such as working and going on holidays. There have been quite a lot of these nights out over the last 2 months and the bank holiday weekend recently meant we were out Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday and can't really remember any of it. Woop Woop.


Gay Pride Arrived to Sheffield for the first ever time so I made an appearance there for an all day all night drinking session. The event was very well planned to say it were the 1st event and was actually really busy so I had an alright time here, bit strange dancing at 3pm in the afternoon in a large tent lol but it was aright and I'm sure the next pride event will be better.


As for work, well if you remember I were given a team to look after for 1 month, however this lasted 4 months at which point I become a seconded manager and the team were given to me, whilst I knew this was not to last the end did eventually come once I had no team left and I returned to my usual sales role after what had been 5 months. I've now some really good management experience under my belt. It's likely in the very near future I'll be handed my very own team to manage.


Holidays are coming, Holidays are coming. Yes I've 3 holidays one to Amsterdam next month with Patrick and Jay from work. I then have Egypt with my mum in September and then Morocco in November with Jay from work. All these holidays are now fully paid off. The only issue at the moment is that Patricks passport mysteriously vanished from his flat so he is having to apply for a new one but the holidays will go on as planned.


As the blog were closing 2 months ago my dad had got in contact after a 20 year absence and we have spoke a few times via email since then and learnt stuff about each other. I'm unsure at this point in time when and if I'll be ready to take that to the next step of meeting up. This is something that I'd like to do in my own time and when I'm ready to.
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Tomorrow I'm meant to be in Manchester for Poptastic and tonight I've Patrick coming around for a drink, we can't go out really seems I'm red from been sunburnt and he has something wrong with his eye, plus I'm working tomorrow and we wanna have a good weekend. So its drink inside for us tonight and the big brother eviction.

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