After a tiring day at work last night I could finally do something nice and relaxing so role on when 8.30pm arrived to go for a meal at TGI Fridays. I've wanted to go here quite a few times in the past but have never got around to going but as Danny had decided to treat me to a meal out, I thought it would be nice to. Russel had also come to join us so that we could occupy his mind as his mum passed away the night before so it would be nice to have people around him as well.
The meal was nice as well, the staff here were friendly and their choice of cocktails was rather on the good side especially the last one I had, some strawberry cocktail, I could not believe the size of it lol, so it took me a while to drink it anyway. I felt rather full after the starter, the meal and the 3 cocktails I'd stuffed down me. Overall then it has been a really nice meal out, something different and somewhere different and once that was over I went back to my place with Danny and Russel went home.
I ended up falling asleep as did Danny so at around 3am he had to then drive back to Leeds, bless him at that time in the morning as well.
Today (Wednesday) I had to make a decision on where I wanted us to go and as you can read back on I've been pondering the concerns I had for a few days, whilst age was a concern I ruled around that one based on maturity and to be honest I've always said that providing the person is mature I will go for someone younger but it was just a preference they were older, however the main concern I had was the distance.
I unfortunately had to stick to my guns on this one and rule that the distance part for me would be an issue and for that reason I did not want to take it any further, but of course friendship is still something I want. It's a shame that the distance is an issue for me, now whilst it's not a great distance and Danny did say he would be more than happy to travel it still does not make me feel any better about the situation, someone having to travel all the time and just the fact I prefer to have someone closer by. I guess as well it's easy for someone to say they are happy to travel but 3 months - 6 months etc down the line that situation may not be the same, who knows?
It may happen to me I've made the wrong choice myself, again who knows? but I feel happy that I believe I've made the right choice for me and hopefully I will still have a friendship out of this.
Moving on from that I've had another long day at work, stressing and long and I felt ill once I'd left with a bad stomach ache, poor me.
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