Sunday, 17 October 2010

3 weeks on

So it's been 3 weeks of single life and ya know what it's good. All feelings are long gone and this will be the last post I make in reference to my ex. We have not spoke for a week after I decided I don't want to any more. Times have moved on quickly but that was all helped along nicely when I came to realise what kind of person I had been shacked up with in the first place so really I guess I would like to thank him for making me realise that these last few weeks of single life have made me realise from now on I will always stand by my doubts, concerns and thoughts and when I think I am right about something to believe it

I will look upon this as an experience, as it was my first boyfriend coming from a meet off the Internet so it has taught me a lesson.

Don't rush in
Make sure the person is normal
Make sure the person carries no baggage
Make sure they have not just come out of a relationship
Check there profile criteria i.e they want a relationship
Make sure the person has some friends and just just an ex as a friend
On a final note have the person vetted and if that means taking them on Jeremy Kyle, do it!!!

So yes overall then, feeling good, feeling happy and I've been assured that actually to feel good that I've not been traded in for an upgrade and instead a downgrade. Not my words, friends words. That's called having good friends.

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