New Relationship

Saturday 5th

A wedding to attend this afternoon for Ann and Paul, this is the 2nd wedding I've been to in just a few months so as I'd no idea where it was me and Patrick got a taxi up to Katy's house to then get a taxi to the Church, 22 miles away and cost £20. I'd already got a taxi up to Katy's as it is. But anyway the wedding lasted for around an hour before we throw some confetti and moved on to the reception.

All nicely set up with our names on the table and little bottles of bubbles to blow, which we took advantage of and then of course the camera. We love it when cameras are supplied so between us we used about 3 of them that's myself, Patrick, Katy, Haley and Samuel as we were all sat together at the reception. The food was a buffet as expected so there were some nice food and plus of course we had a few to drink as well. Then came the night party so all the cheesy stuff came on like Cha Cha Slide and Timewarp which we danced to but at one point me and Patrick were dancing to Girls Aloud on our own, hmmm

Left the reception about half 10 and came back to mine but then we decided to go out to Dempsey's so quickly got ready and arrived there about 12.30am. Michelle came to meet us with her new fella and Russel also arrived. The night became unexpected and I ended up in a heated argument with my ex, this is the same one I'm talking about from Climax and that lasted about half an hour so peeved me off a lot. I carried on the night with a then unexpected text out of the blue which took me back a bit.

Left Dempsey's about 3 and we all went up to Xes where we then met Katy and Sharron and stayed here till the end. Patrick and I would need to be having a chat when we get the time alone to do so. Once we left Xes with some bottles that Michelle had bought we came back to mine and chilled out and chatted and listened to some music. Around 8am or so I took a very unexpected turn where I get a very severe headache, to be honest the most painful one I ever recollect having, it became very unbearable, at the same time I were been sick and became seriously hot. 2 hours I were in the bathroom with Michelle and Patrick looking out for me pouring freezing water over my head and back to cool me down whilst I'm constantly wetting my face. I felt like I were literally burning up this is also in between trying to force water down my due to dehydrating but then this resulted in me been sick quite a few times in the 2 hours I were in the bathroom.

Sunday 6th

Come around 10am Sunday morning Russel took Michelle home and me and Patrick went too so I had people around me, still at this point my headache was just as painful. Russel did not come into Michelle's but me and Patrick stayed till around 6pm. By the time we left when Michelle dropped us back home I'd been sick a total of 15 times and had now had a really bad headache for 10 hours and the 3 different kind of painkillers I'd taken had done nothing. The only relief I got is if I were outside in the cold.

Back at mine after a talk cuddled up on the balcony I can now happily and officially declare that me and Patrick are now a couple. So a 3 year friendship has now moved onto a relationship, something that's been on and off discussion for a while so at least we have a really good foundation for a really good healthy relationship, we know tons about each other to a point where we finish each others sentences but of course we now need to develop the relationship and see what we can make of it. I see a very positive future for us both and it's a very good timing as well seems we go to Amsterdam on Wednesday and we now go as a couple and not a friends. We've had some really really nice comments from people who we know so all positive there.

Patrick stayed over tonight but he knows I'm working early tomorrow so will have to get up at half 7 when I do. Least I had someone with me as still not well by the time we went to bed I'd been sick another 2 times and when I called NHS Direct with my concerns they wanted me to go to A&E but paying £20 in a taxi there and another £20 back just forced me to grim and bear in and if I were still bad in the morning I would go then but thankfully when I woke up Monday morning though feeling a little rubbish the headache had gone.